Veere Di Weddingâs trailer was all about fun, frolic and friends. At least thatâs what we felt after watching it. But the debates and discussions that brewed post it hitting the internet were about which woman talks the way the female leads in the film does. A country like India who has different set of behavioural rules for men and women, VDWâs trailer did make them a bit uncomfortable. For one, it has the women abusing without flinching, living life like a stud (if thatâs even a worthy benchmark), having alcohol without limits, not caring a damn about peopleâs perception about themâŠ basically living their life on their own terms. Itâs not surprising that the trailer has evoked responses where people are finding it pretentious and forced. Well, news flashâŠ itâs not! Thatâs exactly how women behave in cities like Mumbai and you shouldnât take offence to it, because well, you loved the Pyaar Ka Punchnama series. (Also read:Â Veere Di Wedding song Tareefan: Sonam Kapoor and Kareena Kapoor Khanâs track is sexy, stylish and so damn HOT!)
Why we are comparing it with PKP? Thatâs simple. The franchise was the coming together of men for one common goal â bash women. VKW is of course more than that but men canât be the centre of a story which has women in the lead. But yes, the girls are seen slamming men and what they do. So you have Sonam yelling âYou bloody Mother loverâ or the time Swara Bhaskar tells her husband if she gets a job, who will cook for him! But the biggest beef people have with this film is the liberal use of abuses by the women. Sample thisâŠ
#veerediwedding This bullshit movie is exposing the hypocrisy of dimwit actress of Bollywood who are taking pride in uttering filthy languages specially anti -women. I guess @sonamakapoor@ReallySwara talk like this only when they are at home.Bloody contractors of society values
â Nitin Tripathi (@NitinTr_25) May 2, 2018
Well, we would like to clarify here women do talk like that and there is nothing to get all riled up about it. We are pretty sure every men have wondered what to âGirls talkâ entail. Most of the time their lack of knowledge made them believe it was about periods or sex. Yes, some one women do talk about sex in whispers and call it âGirls talkâ but most of us just sit together and talk about the regular s**t thatâs happening in our lives, which are sometime peppered by abuses. If society doesnât get corrupted when men use them in their regular vocabulary, it shouldnât bother you when women do the same. I have personally been part of girl gangs where they use more profanities in their conversation than regular sentences. So stop getting your morals worked up at all the wrong places.
Go aheadâŠ blame us for being feminists. If you laughed at the stupid one-sided jokes in PKP films, VDW should never bother you.